About your report..
Gypsies or Roma are ethnic group that has imigrated to Europe 1000 years ago. Calling them Gypsy/Cigan can be considered offensive. I grew up with them so I can speak the Romani language too.
I couldn't reach you in private, so here's the answer to your question: No, it's not normal to have an inflammation in the anus area after intense penetration.
Bot, you don't always have to make things overdramatic. You know that the people that say "nooooooooo" are Boddy and Devil each time they die.
Stormix is new admin and will learn, adding flames to the fire won't help.